
Low Mood and Depression
Signs:
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Loss of interest or pleasure in things that would previously have enjoyed
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Loss of concentration
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Loss of appetite
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Trouble sleeping; fatigue
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Isolating from others
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Negative mood (looking at things in a negative light; feelings of hopelessness and helplessness)
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Rumination (cycling thoughts)
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Suicidal ideation
*You need a certain number of these and they need to occur for a certain length of time to be defined as clinical depression; however, low mood can really impact you and so if you are feeling any of these symptoms reaching out to a helper is a good idea
Recommendations:
Margaret Wehrenberg recommends the following in her book "The 10 Best-Ever Depression Management Techniques":
1 - Identify things that trigger you to fall into a low mood
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Get support to figure out a way to respond to it differently (friend, counsellor, or family member)
2 - Start where you already are
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Take time to recognize all the best parts of yourself and the things that are going right in your life
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Write down or practice saying things you are grateful for
3 - Cool down burnout
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Pare back on activities if you are doing too much
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Take time to look at your commitments and say no to some if that's what's needed
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8 - Broaden Your Perspective
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Choose what a situation means to you and what you will do about
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Find a different angle as to how to look at something
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Learn to observe without judgement / Dispute negative beliefs
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Allow yourself to feel feelings
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Look at what helpful purpose your symptoms might be offering
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Remember some things that come up have nothing to do with you
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Learn optimism and expand your positive self talk
9 - Increase Flexibility
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Notice and then interrupt your own bad mood
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Know that there are good choices but no perfect choice
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Try not to take yourself too seriously
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Manage your feelings of disappointment by feeling them but also continuing to feel hope
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Build positive pathways in your brain with positive affirmations and insert joy into your life whenever you can
10 - Learn to Live Fully
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Know that happiness often precedes opportunity not the other way around
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Breathe deeply, pay attention to your senses and live with awareness of yourself to keep yourself grounded in the current moment
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Learn to savour experiences and practice gratitude.
4 - Mobilize Your Energy
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Break things down into small tasks
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Take breaks
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Leave a problem for awhile and then come back to it
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Exercise
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Do something something hands on.
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5 - End Isolation
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Practice making connections with others
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Manage your social media consumption
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Join a group or club
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Work on your social skills - you can get coaching on this!
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Notice the positives in others
6 - Balance Your Life
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Notice: your ability to make and follow through on goals, maintain your attention and focus, think and regulate your emotions
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Try: going outside, break your routine, avoid spending all day doing one thing, remember and repeat doing joyful things, enhance your spirituality, define your values
7 - Prevent Destructive Behaviour
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Make list of distractions
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Call a friend or therapist or counsellor
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Learn how to see a situation for what it is - not what it reminds you of
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Journal
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Remember feelings are just feelings
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Practice compassion for yourself and others.
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